TROUBLE WITH MOM!!!!!!!!

[AM1H0PL3SS]

ok i CANT STAND my mom! she drives me ABSOLUTLEY CRAZY! i am NEVER allowed to to absolutely ANYTHING with my friends! and whenever i do she makes a huge fit over it! i am noit even allowed to go to the MOVIES by myself! i am noty allowed to have a cell phone, a boyfriend, dye my hair, pluck my eyebrows go to the mall by myself with no parents until i am 18 years old....18 YEARS OLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and whenever i ask my mom if i can have a guy friend over, (just a friend) she says no!and she always has to pick out my clothes and they look HORRIBLE and everyone makes fun of me because of it! i tried ALOT of times talking to her but then she yells at me! its sooo annnoying and agrivating that i have NO privladges what so ever(and i can even rarely talk to her about my socil life!) please helpp! its sooo annoying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[SarahKatina ♥]

Hey I know how that feels my dad was almost exactly the same (before & after the divorce).
Have you tried talking to another family member?

Or maybe you could writing down in a note/letter how you feel & how you feel your relationship is/will end up with your mum & then giving it to her? You dont even have to be in the same room while she reads it you could go upstairs & just let her read it through then in say an hours time go down (if she dont come up to you) & see how she feels about the note/letter.

ANother good thing you could try doing is maybe having a girly nite in/out with your mum, I know you said she drives you crazy but loads of people who Ive said this to says it helps, just spend a few hours with your mum doing something you both enjoy (could be going out for a meal or just sitting down watching a film), you could do it once a week, once a fornight or once a month up to the two of you. But it can /will improve your relationship with her & in turn she may feel she can trust you more if your closer.

Good luck & I hope Ive helped, let us know how things turn out.
All my love
RainbowSheep
xxx

[nidalemap]

My mum and dad're just like that, and youre right it is annoying. I agree with rainbowsheep on how to get some help.

[babiidoll]

does your mom have an email adress? if so write her an email explaining how you feel and if she doesnt than write a letter and put it in a place you know she can find it. If you do that than she cant interupt you when your trying to explain. Tell her exactly what you wrote here except in a nicer way and if that doesnt work try talking to an aunt, uncle, or cousin and see if they are willing to talk to your mom about the situation for you, sometimes its easier for adults to understand what your going through if someone more grownup than you talked to them about it. Because most of the time adults think that you saying you have no privlages means that you are just trying to get away with more.

Or something could be bothering your mom. Ask her if there is anything wrong and if she gets mad at that then something is wrong. Try having one of your moms friends talk to her about whats wrong and tell your moms friend that you are concerned about your mother