2 bffls...both dont like each other

[Jeenahmmm nifty]

okay i have 2 bffls. both hate each other cuase they got into a fight and i tried to figure out why but then they wont tell me idk y but id rather nt get involved. so anyways since they hate each other they put me right in the middle. they make me say bad stuff about them and will be like one to another "jeena sed this about you" and ill be standin there in total denial saying no i didnt. then when one will ask me what i think about them ill say id rather not get involved then [[whoevers askin]] will get mad at me. i just want them to stop fighting because its ruining my friendship with both of them

[SarahKatina ♥]

So many people have had this problem so we all know what your going through, friends hating each other gets hard at times as well as annoying.

Why dont you sit them both down & force them to talk, get everything out in the open & then say if you still dont like each other then thats your problem. Sometimes talking it out can help alot.

Also I know you said already told them you'd rather not get involved but how about telling them both that your staying out of all this, its theyre problem not yours & you dont want to be in the middle. When they then start talking about how they feel about the other person or asking stuff like "Have they said anything about me?" all you have to do is turn round & say your not answering that due to the the fact your not getting involved.

Hope that helps,

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[glamourgirlx3]

alot of ppl have this problem.

maybe u could try talking to them or hang out with one one day and another the next day and if they try
to talk bout one another say plz i dont wanna get in this it is between you twoo not all of us and i dotn wanna get in it or if she says something bout another change the subject or say im not gonna get in this but she is my friend and dont talk about her around me it bothers me