wat to do?

[jen1]

theres this guy i relly love n weve known each other for 3 yrs now.. things arent relly goin well..he told me he loves me to but he doesnt want to get hurt since he came out of a serious realtionship were things went bad n that he doesnt want to hurt me either. and that hes not the rite guy for me .i dunno if i should move on or hold on to him cuse i really lyk him and ive never lyked anyone lyk him b4 and if i let him go its lyk losing myself hes one of the best things that has ever happened to me so its really hard n i cant make up my mind..i relly lyk this guy n im willin to do anythin for him but i dunno wat he thinks..i cud move on but i dunt want to..i noe he may not be for me but i want to make sure i wont regret lettin him goo i dunno wat to do..if to wait or move on? hellppp

[Jenna]

Ok so it sounds like you guys are ok for the most part...my advice would be NOT to give up on him. Guys like it when you are straight forward with them, like when you are totally truthful about something. So just let him know one time that you will wait. Just bring it up and say "Um hey ____, i respect that you arent ready to have a gf yet, but let me at least tell you that i like you. I like you and i can wait until you are ready." and then look into his eyes for a min. and walk away. its a sexy way to tell him you like him and respect him.