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Post by REALLYXUGLYXGIRL on Jul 20, 2006 9:08:45 GMT -5
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Post by SarahKatina ♥ on Jul 20, 2006 17:14:16 GMT -5
Okay so you have a lack of self-esteem, I suggest that you take a piece of paper, sit down & write everything you like about your self & your life. I know that sounds like something a child should do but it works & it makes you see all the good things in life you should be thankful for.
Also dont think your the only one who goes through this, every person who has graced this Earth feels like this at some point or another but they get through it, its like a phase we all go through, we all suffer from self-esteem / self-image issues so its perfectly normal for you to feel like this.
I have a few ideas that you could try if you really feel that you cant boost your self-esteem up enough to look & at your self & feel proud of what you have & who you are.
+ Although you havent mentioned your age we go through puberty until we are 21, so no worries your breast will continue you grow. Until then try working out & your muscles will tone out (this includes the ones in your breasts which will make them get harder & look bigger).
+ Having small breasts has nothing to do with not having no friends or atleast it shouldnt, join some after school clubs & try them out for a few weeks it will help you meet new people & gain new friends, as well as increase your self-concept.
+ When your older your love the fact that your tall, its something many people wish to be so feel greatful that you are although you dont like it now, its something that your love as you muture.
+ Acne is a normal thing, everyone gets it. If you cant seem to find anything in stores that will work try Lavender oil or TeaTree oil, also try adding some make up to your face it will draw peoples attention away from the acne.
+ Working out will tone out your muslces (like I mentioned above) this should take care of any problem you have about feeling face, as for being pale many people would kill to be pale it means you can wear any make up colour as well as clothing colour & not have to worry because it will look fab with your skin.
+ If your not keen on using fake tan try sunbathin a bit more (limit your time though), also as far as I know using fake tan wont give you cancer at all but the best thing to do to be sure of that is research different brands of fake tan before using them.
I hope Ive helped, if not sorry. But just remember to be thankful for what you have, although you may not feel pretty there are many people out there who are worse of then you; Blind, Deaf, Disabled, Mentaly Disabled etc...
Love
SarahKatina
xxx
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Post by DIDI on Jul 21, 2006 9:20:46 GMT -5
okayy...so you think ur ugly....
but hey, isnt every other girl going through this situation???
i rember when i went through that,"phase"
here are some tips to help you
1.so your breasts are small? it dosent really matter. they dont stop growing until u are at least 23. besides all they are are just fat tissues in ur body. 9 out of ten girls that were interviewed were not happy with their breast size. and thats okay! they will eventually grow
2.if you want to have friends then join clubs like what sarah said.
3. being tall is a GOOD thing.you can be a model, and guys like girls with long legs.
4. acne is perfectly normal and if you want to get rid of it use this thing i use that works like MAGIC proactiv. you can also use foundation to cover it up...it will eventually clear up
5.if you want to lose weight then work out, eat the right foods, and throw out all the junk food in ur house and replace it with healthy food. it sounds crazy but it does work!
6. it is true, SOME fake tans can give you cancer but not ALL. also sit out in the sun and get that summer color you always wanted.
you are not ugly every girl is beatiful just the way they are. Gosh does not make mistakes and saying u are ugly is like saying that he did.
i hope i helped you!
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